Flying with Children: Pro Tips to Keep Everyone Happy at 30,000 Feet

8 Tips for flying with children

1. Plan Ahead (Like, Really Ahead)

When it comes to flying with kids, spontaneity is overrated. Booking flights during times when your child is typically happiest (or napping) can make a huge difference. Early morning flights are often less crowded and more punctual, which helps avoid the domino effect of delays that often pile up later in the day.
If your child is still in diapers or has dietary needs, call the airline ahead of time to check on amenities like changing tables, pre-boarding options, and meal allowances. You’d be surprised how much stress you can sidestep just by making a few calls in advance.

2. Choose Seats Strategically

Window or aisle? For kids, window seats are usually a hit—they love staring out at the clouds, and it keeps them somewhat contained. If you're traveling with a partner, try booking a window and aisle seat in the same row; if the flight isn’t full, you might get lucky and have the middle seat to yourselves.
For longer flights, bulkhead seats (the first row in each cabin) offer extra legroom, which is a blessing when you need space for a bassinet or a toddler to play. Just note that you won’t have under-seat storage during takeoff and landing, so keep those essentials in the seatback pocket.

3. Pack a “Plane Survival Kit”

Think of this as your carry-on command center. Here’s what to include:

• Snacks: Pack twice as many as you think you'll need. Non-messy, non-sugary snacks like cheese sticks, pretzels, fruit pouches, and crackers are clutch.
• Entertainment: Tablets, yes—but also stickers, coloring books, magnetic puzzles, and small figurines. Novelty is key. Wrap a couple of surprise toys or books to dole out as rewards.
• Essentials: Wipes (for everything), extra clothes for both the child and you (spills happen), ziplock bags, and a small blanket or travel pillow.
• Headphones: Not just any—kid-sized ones with volume control. Bonus points if they’re themed with a favorite character.

4. Master the Art of Distraction

If there's one superpower that will serve you best mid-flight, it’s distraction. Short attention spans are your friend, not your enemy, because they allow you to rotate through activities quickly.
Create a simple activity rotation: 15 minutes of coloring, 20 minutes of screen time, snack time, a walk down the aisle, and so on. Keep them moving—mentally and, if possible, physically. You don’t need a perfect schedule, just enough variety to keep boredom at bay.
And when all else fails, let go of the guilt. Sometimes, three hours of cartoons is what it takes—and that’s okay.

5. Embrace the Power of the Tablet (Responsibly)

You might be anti-screens at home, but in the air, a tablet can be your best friend. Load it up with age-appropriate games, shows, and movies before you fly—don’t rely on in-flight Wi-Fi, which is often patchy at best.
For toddlers, apps that don’t require internet are best—think interactive storybooks, simple puzzles, or coloring apps. And don’t forget to fully charge it and bring a power bank. Low battery at 38,000 feet? No thank you.

6. Talk About the Flight Ahead of Time

For kids, especially first-timers, flying can be scary. Normalize it by talking about what to expect—from check-in to turbulence. Picture books about flying or even simple role play at home can help reduce anxiety and create a sense of excitement.
Explain things like why they have to wear a seatbelt or what happens during takeoff and landing. The more they know, the more secure they’ll feel.

7. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help

Flight attendants have seen it all and are generally very understanding. Don’t hesitate to ask for an extra cup, more napkins, or even a quick walk in the galley if your child’s restless. Most fellow passengers are more empathetic than you’d think—especially when they see you’re doing your best.
A smile, a little patience, and the occasional apologetic glance go a long way if things get loud or messy.

8. Set Realistic Expectations (and Lower Them Slightly)

Flying with kids isn’t going to be perfect. There might be tears. There might be spills. Your child might loudly declare something wildly inappropriate mid-flight. It happens.
Go in with a flexible mindset and a sense of humor. The goal isn’t a silent, spotless journey—it’s to get from point A to point B with everyone relatively sane and in one piece.
And when you land? Celebrate. You did it.

Final Thoughts: You’ve Got This

Traveling with kids is equal parts chaotic and magical. Sure, you’ll probably need a nap after, but you’re also building memories and teaching your child that the world is big and worth exploring. That’s pretty incredible.
So pack those snacks, queue up “Bluey,” and board that plane with confidence. You’re not just a parent—you’re a travel ninja in disguise.

Bon voyage!